Lapis lazuli bonds relationships in love and friendship and helps you to be able to express your feelings and emotions. It removes non-constructive feelings of martyrdom, cruelty, and suffering. If used as crystal water it will remove emotional bondage.
Lapis lazuli encourages taking charge of your life. It reveals inner truth, encourages self-awareness and allows self-expression without holding back or compromising. If repressed anger is causing difficulties for you in the throat or in communication, lapis lazuli releases them. Lapis lazuli brings the enduring qualities of honesty, compassion to the personality.
Lapis Lazuli helps to move your consciousness beyond the mundane and allows you to identify habits, patterns, and lessons you may have difficulty perceiving consciously, and which may be blocking you from making spiritual progress.
Lapis lazuli calms feelings of frustration, agitation, and anger. With the stone in hand, you can find ways to deal with the emotional turmoil resulting from abuse (physical, mental and emotional) to heal and find inner peace. The calming energy of lapis lazuli is useful for issues related to inner child work, alcohol and drug addictions. It will help you overcome anger and rage.
It helps you to take responsibility for yourself rather than blaming others for missed opportunities.